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writes:So I am currently seeing this girl... we both expressed our feelings towards each other recently and she really adores me and she admitted that she found happiness with me, honestly she is everything I ever wanted, but she has some problems in her life which is making me think twice before asking her to be my girlfriend...She had an ex bf of 3 years and they broke up about 9 months ago.. they had a baby together and somehow still love each other in different ways.. now most of my friends are advising me to cut her off but I really like her and I just can't let her go that easily.Do you guys think I should ask her to be my girlfriend? Or should I just let her go, I'm just left hanging here with no clue... Thank You
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reader, Wreck +, writes (24 June 2009):
 Babies cause drama... But if you feel like asking her out is the right thing to do then dont let your friends talk down on you its not what they think of her its what YOU know ... YOU talk to her they dont they dont know how YOU feel..... If she still "loves" that guy then make sure to take things slow because you don't want her leaving you for that guy later.. besides that guy is not in her life at this moment for a reason obviously hes not doing his job if you feel like you can do a better job then do it... be there for her... , show her your more of a man then that other guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009): Your friends want you to cut her off just because she has a child? Sounds like your friends just want you to be with someone without kids so you can all go out partying together. If you are with a single mom, it means you are limited to what things you can do and most likely just stay at her place watching videos while she takes care of her kid. Your friends don't want you to drop off the planet and not hang out with them.
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