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*amarossv8
writes:Hello,Last week I took a yoga class at the library. The instructor was quite pretty. I want to ask her out, but I'm not sure if it's appropriate. The reason I say that is because I mentioned to her I was going to send off an article about her class. I sent her a draft yesterday and she said she liked it and was honored by my words, and my experience in the class. Today, I'm wanting to ask her out for coffee, but before I do so, I want to get some feedback as to the best way to approach this situation.
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reader, camarossv8 +, writes (24 June 2009):
camarossv8 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI e-mailed her yesterday to invite her out for coffee. I haven't received a response yet. She usually responds within a few hours of the e-mail. I'm thinking that she read it and instead of e-mailing me to say no, she just has not decided to respond. I think I'll wait a few days and apologize or just not e-mail her at all.
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reader, camarossv8 +, writes (23 June 2009):
camarossv8 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answer! I'll give it a shot! :)
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reader, lukec24  +, writes (23 June 2009):
simple after the class just go up to her and compliment her like great class today or something and then after she answers ask her if she wants to go for coffee and as the gentleman allways buy the coffees and then ask her what she likes to do
hope im of any help to you
good luck
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reader, TwiggyCA  +, writes (23 June 2009):
 I always think of yoga instructors like doctors... like it would be a conflict of interest to go out with them. BUT, realistically, it's fine! I think asking her out for coffee would be an easy way to initiate something, but without being like "dinner and a movie". But, what if she declines, would that ruin your yoga experience? Would you be able to still see her or would you be uncomfortable? those are the questions I would ask myself.
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reader, Emjo +, writes (23 June 2009):
 Hmm the way i see it, sorry if im wrong but your asking for opinions right? Shes dealing with you in a student teacher manner and although you are both adult would she really want to jeporidse this relationship, i mean could her job be on the line for it? Has she shown and clear indicators of intrest towards you? She may just be being polite, i'd step back for another few weeks, i mean how much do you know about her, for all you know she could be in a relationship already, i'd save yourself the chance of rejection for the moment and hold off till your more sure of things yourself...
Take care,
Em x
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