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Why do I stop his advances?

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Question - (23 June 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A age 30-35, * writes:

Hi!

I have a friend, and he's somewhere in between a friend with (limited) benefits and a boyfriend to me. Our relationship is odd, but that's not the focus of my question.

I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to say this right:

If ever we're kissing and it becomes heavier in pressure and passion, he knows it really gets me into it more if he trails kisses down my neck. I don't know why, but it works really well.

My last boyfriend did that and it felt like heaven. I'm not over him yet.

Both of these guys have said I make a cute and fun little noise when they do it that's really sexy. Is that a good thing?

Lately I haven't let my current guy do that. It makes me feel really vulnerable, and he says that makes him feel like I don't trust him. Whenever I reject him for it, he doesn't get mad at me, but he acts disappointed with himself.

I'm 15, and I wear a purity ring--no sex before marriage.

Can you guys please help me figure out the reasons why I keep stopping him? I do like it, but... I don't know!

Is it because of something about my ex? Selfconsciousness? Lack of trust for him? Lack of trust for myself that I'll go too far? Some other factor I haven't thought of?

Thanks so much for any input; it's greatly appreciated!

-GG

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