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writes:Hi. I asked this question a few weeks ago but things are still no different. My boyfriend when he writes/texts me tells me he loves me and I am his rock etc etc. But when he kisses me his eyes are HALF OPEN and his tongue never really enters mt mouth properly.Please can you tell me - does my man just not know how to snog properly - or does he not really like me??I'm too shy to mention it to him so please advise me if you can!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all your advice! - I guess he is just a bad kisser! - When I pluck up more courage - I'll ask him about it!
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reader, Beingblack +, writes (23 June 2009):
 Hello Ms Anon, there is one obvious question. I guess you would prefer that your man closes his eyes when he kisses you. If that's the case how would you know his eyes were only half-closed, unless yours are wide open!
Also, many people are not huge fans of the tongue thing. Me for one, I prefer to kiss on the lips, and keep my tongue in my own head. This doesn't mean a thing, except that people kiss in different ways. I have never seen a manual or taken an exam on kissing, where the curriculum demands that people should use their tongue.
There is no right or wrong way to snog. Merely your way, and his way. If you love him, and you fancy the arse off him, then accept his little quirk and focus on the things that he does nicely, not on one little thing that you think he is doing wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009): My boyfriend and i have been dating for a little over a year now. I opened my eyes once while we were making out and saw his were wide open! i asked him what he was doing and he replyed that he simply loved the way i looked while he was kissing me. Also, some guys think that using too much tounge can be a bad thing. They can be afraid that they will "shove their tounge down your throat" as some like to say, or that using tounge at sometimes kills the romance.
So, what you really need to do is talk to your guy and ask HIM whats he's doing. not us. He'll be honest.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (23 June 2009):
 it sounds as if this guy doesnt know how to kiss properly, and with his eyes wide open he probably wants to gage your reaction to the whole kissing thing.
why dont u ask him nicely why he kisses with his eyes open?
its normal for eyes to be shut, but maybe he prefers it that way?
communication is the key to any relationship, and if u dont like the way he kisses, WHY DONT U SHOW HIM HOW YOU LIKE IT?
im sure he loves you, i cant see no reason why he doesnt from what you've wrote.
Good luck!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (23 June 2009):
 How do you respond to his kisses? You "snog" him back deeply? or match his kisses?
It might be your man don't know how to tickle your tonsils, he might actually not like the whole tongue thing.. Some people don't.
Maybe ( this is sooo politically incorrect) get him a wee bit tipsy at home and snog the crap out of him, see what he does.
The half-open eyes, can be that he likes to watch you while he kisses with out being to obvious.
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