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I love my boyfriend to bits so why do I keep thinking about other guys?

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Question - (23 June 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 June 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, *ictoriaJK writes:

Let me start by saying that I love my boyfriend more than anything in the world and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I have been in a relationship with him for a year now and this is the only relationship I've ever been in. My problem is that I was single for so long that even now I still think of other guys. I always feel the need to impress them and make them like me even though I wouldn't want to go out with them. How do I stop myself from thinking about other guys like this?

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A female reader, Emjo United Kingdom +, writes (23 June 2009):

Emjo agony auntHun, i wouldnt, its nice to feel wanted, and the fact YOU dont want a relationship with them is enough, its just nice to be desired, its like teasing boys so to speak, showing them things they cant have...

Its fun and nice and i wouldnt worry about it as long as your not looking at the boys in a longing way.

It may also be to do with habit? Or the fact that you feel as though you've missed out on something?

Im not sure, obviously they're just shots in the dark,

but i wouldnt worry too much as your sure you love him so best of luck to you in the future :)

x

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