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writes:So i'm engaged to be married. I am currently still married trying to divorce my ex. He's giving me problems signing the papers. He believes that we should stay together for the kids. I believe I'm better off with my fiance. He's a great man treats my kids good and also helps me with them more then my ex. He always asks me to come home. If I tell him know he starts running to my fiance saying things that aren't true thinking he would break up with me and i would have no choice but to go back to him. I love my fiance very much. But i feel lost on what to do with my ex. i tried letting him down easy so many times but he just won't stop. Any ideas on how to get him to stop and let me be happy? I told him if he cared about me then he would care about my happiness. not to mention everytime i drop my kids off with him he tries to have sex with me. Help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCustody is going to be shared
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 June 2009):
 Yup let the lawyers deal with him. Unless it;s about the kids don't talk to your ex (soon to be ex husband).
Set some ground rules. If Your fiancee loves you he will understand that the Ex is trying to cause some drama. A marriage is over if one of the parties do not wish to continue - it is as simple as that.
On a different note, what is your plan for custody of the kids?
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reader, Helplessly devoted  +, writes (23 June 2009):
The very first thing that you've done is to reflect the situation... If there's no more tendency to be together then go to your lawyer citing valid grounds for divorce... If your husband don't want to participate, it is a clear indication that he deprive your life to be happy. Seek for legal assistance to expedite all your concerns.
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