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writes:Recently my ex and I got back together. We broke up basically we argued too much, not because of diminished love. After the breakup both of us had such a difficult time - I've heard from his friends that he stopped functioning. During our breakup, he called me a couple of times telling me that not having me in his life is too dismal and he wants to remain contacts with me, which I refused. For I didn't think I could deal with it while I am not his girlfriend.However, I missed him so much, so I took him out for coffee one day. That night he looked and acted exactly like when he fell for me for the first time. I was sure that he stil had strong feelings for me. On that night, he promised to take me out in a coupe of days. However, he didn't call me for about a week, and it turned out about three months later, that he slept with one of his exes who had been trying to take him back during this time. He regrets this and said it was stupid of him to do that. After my suggestion that we should start exploring our possibility to be together again, he completely dropped any contacts with her. Well, I am not that bothered by him sleeping with someone esle for we were toether at that time. But I just cannot understand why he did it after he finally saw me - it was him who got depressed about me not seeing him, it was him who wanted to talk to me for two months. We are back together now, and doing fine, but I just cannot understand why he fell like that after finally seeing me? Could seeing me actually make him more sad and feel the void? Or did it make him horny??
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (24 June 2009):
 It probably had nothing to do with you, it was probably just a sex thing. It really doesn't have anything to do with you as you weren't a couple so you should stop dwelling on it and questioning his actions. X
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