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writes:This is the 3rd question I have put up about my friends, well kinda, and it might not be the last, but thanks everyone for your support.Okay so I've survived the first 2 days back at school after my friends bitched about me and then left my sleepover. One of them as apoligized (she wasn't there but has been bitching about me) but the others have said absolutly nothing. I haven't seen one yet and I know she has been stiring things up abit. I'm worried about thursday because I have to sit next to 3 of them in one lesson for 2 hours, and I don't know how they'll react, will they talk to me or ignore be, or be nasty? Also we have to interact abit because of how much pair work there is to do. I'm really worried.Another thing is I have started hanging out with more people at lunch and walking home with them, and I would like to start doing that more and hang out with them more, but how can I do that without appearing clingy, or getting them maybe annoyed because I'm around them too much? Reply to this Question
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reader, mediocreland  +, writes (23 June 2009):
Definately ignore the other girls during your class with them. Don't be a bitch about it though, that'll just provoke them more. Just be polite, maybe talk if they ask you a question, but don't show them you are interested at all. They will soon get over themselves if they see you don't care what they think.
As for getting closer to your other friends, I'd say you should stick around them at lunch and whatnot and see where it goes. Maybe lightly bring up things like "oh I really want to see this movie" or "hey this place looks cool" and see if anyone takes the offer to go with you. They shouldn't find things like that clingy at all.
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