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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:- broke up with the "love of my life" (1)- string of bad experiences with lads- started seeing a boy(2) i have known for years, we're good friends, used to really really like him, however, managed to then keep it at just a sexual and close friendship level.- met current boyfriend (3), got together very very quickly.i now don't know what to do.i don't feel head over heels with this boy as i did with the other two i mentioned. i still think about 2 a lot, we still talk about everything and a lot of the time he's the only one i feel i can complain to when something isn;t going right with me and 3. we've had no honeymoon period and i'm worried this is because of my guards that are up after the hurt i went through breaking up with 1. number 2 has also mentioned briefly the fact he wanted more than just sex but we both know he cannot commit. with our deep friendship + our close to uncontrollable spark for each other i feel i should risk being lonely so i can carry on seeing him even if it's not in a relationship. however, i am not a very risk-friendly person, but i dont want to stay with my current boyfriend in fear of hurting him and myself.i know my question is not very clear, but i just need someone's opinion or help to clear up my head a little.by the way i am only young, and i know this so no patronising stuff please.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (23 June 2009):
 I think that you should break it off with bf (3) as you feel it isnt going anywhere, plus u say you seem to be more into ex bf (2)we've all had a bf (like 1) so let time heal you from the pain of that relationship.you've answered your own question because you say u dont want to stay with your current bf because you dont want to hurt him. follow where your instincts guide you, believe it and it will never let you down, trust me.Good luck!
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