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writes:My boyfriend treats me like a doll. He loves to hold me and carry me around, and he's always telling me how adorable I am. He treats me like I'm his to protect and love, like a flower he's trying to get to bloom, why do some guys do this? Reply to this Question
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reader, niki20 +, writes (23 June 2009):
 he does it to treat you like a princess. to show you how much he loves you and thats the way he shows you. i find it adorable, wish my hubby treated me like a doll lol. but its just his way of protecting you, loving u, etc.
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reader, ladydela +, writes (23 June 2009):
 well maybe its because he really really loves you i know its annoying i have the same thing with my bf but it his own unique way of saying he loves you without words
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009): Sorry hun, you weren't listed as a followup and since there are so many questions out there to be moderated (And i know our MODS work very hard), a lot of us didn't see your respsonse before posting another answer.
And sorry also that we assumed it bothered you. Usually people posting here are having a problem of some sort. We appreciate, but don't expect that the OP is actually happy!
Anway, he just really likes the way you look and act and your personality so he just can't keep his hands off of you! You should be flattered! You're proabably a good bit smaller than he is, and i'm sure he enjoys feeling manly and large.
~SY.
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reader, Confuzzled012 +, writes (23 June 2009):
 he just think you are cute and cant help himself. I am sure he is not trying to degrade you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009): Hahaha I read that on the main page and found it funny. :) Listen hun, I am a grown adult, and even I, at the beginning of my thirties, would do that to my woman as a sign that I love her, and a sign for a feeling I actually have for her.
If your bf is treating you like a doll in front of other people you might ask him to treat you more like an adult of course, but when he does that in private, it is that he 'expresses' his love to you! If you like another behavior then say it sweetly to him, and don't ask him to stop what he likes, but ask him to add what you like. This is a small magical thing called "compromise" that life would teach you on the long run. I am trying to explain it simply here. :)
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009): No, i find it really great. I was just wondering why he would do this. Both of us are shy sometimes, and very outgoing at other times so our relationship is very unusual. But, we love each other so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009): Im sure that is just the way he shows his love. I can understand how this would bug you, though. Try jokingly asking him why he always babies you and that youre not a doll. If you do it in a non-threatening way, he will get the picture without feeling like he has done something wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009): Because he adores you! Does this bug you? If it does, you could tell him that you'd like to be treated like a bit more of an adult. ~SY.
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