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writes:My husband went to a stag night away over a month ago. He swore to me nothing happened. At the back of my mind i now there is something he is hiding but he is very convincing and since he has always been a genuine guy i want to believe him. He sleep walks and starts to talk when he is asleep and if i talk to him he answers me. He mentioned a kiss and i asked alot of questions about it, he said he could not remember her but she turned up at his hotel room and they touched each other but that was it. He started to wake up and got really angry with me and even in the morning said taht i was making it all up he didnt say that because it never happened. Is he hiding somehing from me. I have known him for nine years and always trust what he says but im not so sure now i have caught him out with lies already about this night away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): Can you ask anyone else that was there? Explain what has happened and see whether you can find anything else out. Failing that I would go cool on the whole thing and see if you going cool will make your man wonder what is wrong and see that unless he tells you the truth he is going to lose you.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 July 2009):
Well without making him do a lie detector test there is pretty much nothing you can do to find out.
What you have to do really is figure out what you WOULD do if you knew he had cheated. If you know you would leave him then hanging around waiting to find out the truth won't solve anything. You may as well go now.
If you think you could forgive him as long as you got counselling then tell him this.
I think your best bet is to assume the worst and then move on from it rather than keeping yourself in this rut of not knowing. That has to be far worse.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): wow my sis is the same way and i would say he is hidding somthig from you and he told you they touched but i would tell him how you feel and tell him that u want the honist to god truth and nothing less because that is what u deserve and if he tells you ask him why and see what happends from then
best of luck :)
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