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writes: I've been with a man now for 4 months and I've fallen in love with him, he's told me he loves me too. He had plans to go to Texas for awhile, long before we began dating, now that he's gone. Im finding myself lost for words and skeptical of our relationship and where it always stood. He and I have a connection like I've never felt with any other man; intellectually,playfully, emotionally, physically...spiritually were working on, its not a big issue. There's alot...alot of passion between us. I know he feels it too, and so many memories between us, just in that short period of time together. My question to you is; if he's seeing the whole picture between us like i am, and remembering all the good times and bad, would anything stop him from coming back? Basically, can a man just shut off those kind of memories? And if he does come back, does that mean he really loves me?
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reader, masquerade711 +, writes (7 July 2009):
It's really quite simple. If he loves you, he'll come back. Maybe sooner, maybe later. But he will come back.
If he doesn't come back, you have some thinking to do, and you two should definitely have a conversation or two. Keep in mind, you're only 4 months in. I know you think you love him, and maybe you do, but try not to get too deep into it just yet.
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