A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Is this a fetish? Or is it strange at all?I like sex of course, all types of positions and with my partner. But it seems in all my relationships, even in high school, I always got the most stimulation from doggystyle. Sometimes I couldn't even get an erection unless I saw the woman from behind......I like to see their faces, but something about seeing the woman in postions from behind-whether she's laying on her stomach, on all fours, or sideways-really gets me 'ready'. I have had women ask me why I always want to do it doggystyle, or why I have problems staying hard as soon as we switch from doggystyle into a different position. I usually can't stay erect when the woman is on top either, not for very long at least.I guess I'm just wondering if anyone has any idea why this is happening to me, is it some fetish I need to get over maybe? Thanks a lot in advance for replies.
View related questions:
erection Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): Thanks a lot guys :) I feel better about it now. I appreciate your answers.
A
female
reader, Jess1ca_1988 +, writes (7 July 2009):
u should never want to get over a fetish lol. it is not strange it is completely normal for a man to like it doggy style bc it causes mor friction on the penis which makes it feel better, instead of just worrying about u try reachin around and playing with her clit so that she may get more pleasure out of it, and don't be afraid to ask her what she wants to try like maybe u pleasuring her with toys while u r behind her
...............................
A
male
reader, holikdad +, writes (7 July 2009):
Everybody likes different things, "Different strokes for different folks" is the phrase. It doesn't make you strange nor is this a fetish. That's like say that liking blonde women is a fetish, and it's not.
I personally like it when the girl is on top, it feels different and much better for me that way. But to each his own.
There is nothing "happening" to you so stop over thinking it, you're a normal male of the species. :)
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): I would try using a cock ring. That should help you maintain an erection from other positions. If you are not familar how they work you could google it. Should help the situation.
...............................
A
female
reader, TheAgonyAunt  +, writes (7 July 2009):
 No I don't think this is a fetish I think it's just the position you get the most stimulation from and just because seeing a woman from behind gets you 'ready' doesn't mean its a fetish..
We all have our different turn ons... ;)
But if it is a problem then try and get your partner to really turn you on before you have sex in a different postion and see if you can hold an erection any better. :)
Hope this helps.
...............................
|
