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My family doesn't like this guy and are taking bets on me getting pregnant!

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Question - (7 July 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, *rook_e_boo writes:

my life sucks i just started daiting this jarid july 1st and his big bro looks out for me so i call him big bro 2 and my whole family hates me and jarid together like my bro said he wants to kill him but i really like this guy and every time i talk to him i get butterflys and i fell good about myself but i have low self assteem i don't want to end it but my falily says i should end it and he live 30 min. and he can't come down to see me with out my mom talking to his mom makin sure he can so he can't sneek to see me and i think i am fallin for him and i never felt this way about a guy.

i have tried to get my family to like him but they all tell me he is a cow and that all he wants is sex but i don't do that and now my family is betting on how soon i will get prego they have money on me wut should i do

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A female reader, luvinme159 United States +, writes (8 July 2009):

if your brother wants to hurt him tell your brother that u will never forgive him and that if he cares about you he wouldn't do that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009):

i only have one thing to say.. DONT HAVE SEX WITH HIM! Ur too young! well so am i im 13 but tell ur parents u would never do that. try everything to gain their trust bac

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (7 July 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony auntyour family shouldn't be making bets on how long it takes you to get pregnant!

they should respect you with whom you're with and if he makes you happy then they should be happy.

i mean most guys around that age are probably sexually active but they should trust you and know that you won't do anything you're not sure you want to do and chill out about it.

i mean your parents and brother are just looking out for you i get that but this is your life and you'll make mistakes and you'll learn from them so they can't keep wrapping you in cotton wool until you get everything right in life.

because that's not how life works you make mistakes you learn from them to better yourself and make yourself a stronger person and more whom you want to be.

you need to tell them that this is your life and that you're happy with him and they just have to get used to it!

and that they do have to let you make your mistakes on your own and learn from them on your own without help!

Hope this helps hun

x ilovebowsandcherries x

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A female reader, luvinme159 United States +, writes (7 July 2009):

I'm almost 14 and i get your proplem. it has happened to me like 5 different times. you shoud just tell ur parents an dbro that he is a really good guy and he makes you happy.

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A female reader, Brook_e_boo United States +, writes (7 July 2009):

Brook_e_boo is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Brook_e_boo agony aunto and just to let ppl know my reall bro not the one who is always there for me wants to hurt him

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