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writes:Should i start to invest in a relationship with a girl i like who has had sex once before?? She's told me that she's fine with not doing any of that stuff with me....i'm not like that. i want to stay abstinent. Reply to this Question
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reader, jujubelover +, writes (10 July 2009):
 It’s so refreshing to see a guy that wants to wait. There are a lot more like you out there you know? If you read most of the questions on this site, you wouldn’t believe it, though! I guess I was raised in an old-fashioned way too. Now-a-days, some people think of sex so coldly, as something that must be done just because. I think that emotional maturity, in a committed relationship, plus great communication and love are all important ingredients, when you want the experience the real deal. Why some people are in such a hurry, I don’t know. There is plenty of time. Now for the young lady in question; remember that no one is perfect. If she’s everything that you like in a girl, but she messed up, I’d give the relationship a try. “Nothing ventured, nothing gained”. You won’t know unless you try. Enjoy yourselves, there are so many things that you can do to have fun without it leading to sex. Stay the course!
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reader, cadet smiley +, writes (9 July 2009):
not to be mane but never start a relationship that based on sex it never works out so no dont start one unless your ready for whats to come your way
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (7 July 2009):
 well considering you are 13-15 you are underage for that stuff and it's decent of you not to want to do that stuff.
she probably likes you because you don't want to do that stuff like all the other guys.
it gets you respect from girls it's really refreshing to know guys are still out there who don't want to sleep with every girl they see.
if you like her then go for it but if you are concerned about her sleeping with someone before then don't we can't choose for you but we can help you figure out what you want for the best.
Hope this helps x ilovebowsandcherries x
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