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writes:Ok so heres how it goes.. Ive been dating this call for 4 months now. before that, we were best friends for a year, and it was basically the best relationship ever in the beginnin when i could see that she loved me a lot. Now, i dont see that anymore.. She hardly texts me and when i phone her shes always so untalkative and she keeps talking about this other guy that she says they just friends. I went away last week and now she told me she likes him a bit but still loves me??? Howis that possible?? everytime i talk to her about it we fight, and she ends up ignoring me and this kills me.. i know the right thing to do is break up but soetimes i can see that she really still loves me.. alos, im friendly wih her parets and id feel sooo bad :( But most of all i still love her. WHat do i say to her and what can i do about this guy???? THanks
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reader, romance_boy18  +, writes (7 July 2009):
 first tell what she wants in a man and ask her what she loves about you, tell her that when she talks to you about another person that it hurts you inside. Ive been in this situation at least once before. when a woman meets a man that she likes, eventually if they continue to talk that friendship can put your relationship in the danger zone of being heart broken.seriously its not cool, also I think you should break up with this woman before she continues to hurt you. Just tell her in a kind matter that you should see other people.hope I helped
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reader, Jess1ca_1988  +, writes (7 July 2009):
Well i have been married for almost 4 years now and i still talk to my husband on the phone at least 2 or 3 hous a day and it never gets old. I love him with all my heart and would never do anything to hurt him, so if she told you she had feeling for another guy and she wanted to make it work with you she should stop talking to him, so she don't risk losing you(that is if she does?) u should set her down and let her know how you feel and if she doesn't understand then tell her there is not a doubt in your mind thT you want to be with her but she needs to decide if she wants to take yalls relationship serious or if she wants to continue to talk to her "friend". And its probably no the faCT that she is in love with him she might just like having the feeling of something new and wanting to be the center of someones attention so make her feel like she is the best thing that has ever happened to you and you dont want to be with anyone else in the world except her
Good luck
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