I still love and miss him but does he feel the same way?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I lost my virginity to this guy and at first had a "casual" relationship, I guess. He told me that he would ask me out but he needs to get into law school and he is on the verge of failing. After a few months, I told him I cant do it anymore with someone who is not even my boyfriend. So he asked me to be his girlfriend and even introduced me to his friends as his gf. He said that we should stop having sex because he really wants to get to know me but a week later he said he didnt want a girlfriend right now because of his grades. He said I was the closest he had to a girlfriend and was afraid of losing me and begged that we remain friends. When we hung out a month later, he started acting like my boyfriend again, cuddling with me and holding my hand. He asked if I wanted to have dinner with him and said he would call. He never did and I found out he partied over the weekend. I was so mad that he had time for parties and not me and after that I ignored his calls and texts. After a few months, we saw each other and he asked why I was ignoring him, I said I was busy (I lied) The very last time we had an encounter, about 3 months ago, we saw each other from a distance and just stared at each other for a couple seconds and then walked our separate ways. I've had a couple of guys since him but he is still the perfect man and there isnt a single day where I dont think about him. But I'm wondering does he think of me too? Does he miss me? Is he mad? Im just so sad things had to end this way and wish I could do it all over again..

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