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male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been seeing this girl for almost a year. We were never exclusive but we were dating and over the past three months, we were very serious. In fact,we went out several times a week. Well, back at the end of may, she went out with friends and got really drunk... And she hooked up with a random. After she confessed this to me, I yelled at her and displayed a lot of anger towards her. After the argument, she requested a break. I didn't let her take one as I continued to text her, sent her flowers, etc. Well last Monday, she called me out because I was never able to commit and I hooked up with someone the day after she told me about the random. (Which was a total lie but I wanted to get back at her). She used lines like "its too late" "I've made up my mind" all via instant messanger. That was last 8 days ago. Since then we exchaned texts initiated by me yesterday and today...She started taking anti-depressants around a month ago and she's always been impulsive. Our bond was close but my friendships with other girls really really really pissed her off. So basically she broke up with me over instant messanger because of my hook up (a lie) and my friendships with other girls.I know I've f'd this up... But does anyone have any advice!?!? I'm falling into depression over this girl!!
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (7 July 2009):
 Stupid stupid games!!!! Forgive me but arn't you both a little old for this?? Ridiculous tit for tat arguing and little while lies are for teenagers. If you cannot commit to her then let her go, or at least give her some space that she can date other men...who knows, she just might find someone better than you...someone who will commit to her!!!
You were never exclusive in the first place...Just what were you expecting to happen???
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): Way too many games!
Give here that break she initially requested. I think it will do you good too!
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