New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Should I keep seeing him, or the whole "baby" and "ex" situation too much to bother with?

Tagged as: Dating, The ex-factor, Three is a crowd<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (7 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

HELP!

well first off i meet this guy maybe 10 years ago when i was younger, he used to come through to where i stay for the summer holidays to visit his family and we hung around with each other ....long story short...puppy love! He used to visit them every year and then it became every 2nd year ...we met up a couple of times and ofcourse we had both growen up and spend a fair bit of time together, then that was it .

Anyway few months ago he randomly phoned me and told me he was moving through for a while. (Hadnt spoke to him for maybe a year or so) so it came as a bit of a shock and the butterflys came back !! But this time things were different.. in the year he had got engagded and has a little girl, he isn't with the girl anymore but ofcourse still sees his child. Thing is the ex is taken action court wise for certain reason to do with him. So we meet up and have been for a while now wouldnt call it a relationship but dates yeah, buti dont know whether or not just to say friends is the best thing for us because i dont know if the whole baby and ex fiancee is a bit much to get involved in ....

any advice would be great thanx

View related questions: fiance

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (8 July 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntWhat court action and why?

Got a suspicion you are dating a guy that another woman already got a court order against. These kind of things are called hints. Take them.

<-- Rate this answer

Add your answer to the question "Should I keep seeing him, or the whole "baby" and "ex" situation too much to bother with?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0313002000002598!