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I don't like giving oral sex, he asks for it every day!

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Question - (7 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend asks for oral sex EVERYDAY!!! I for one am not that into it. if there were a better term id say i hate and choose not to do so, i do it enough maybe every four days or so but im gettin tired and he wants me to do it until he cums, i feel he wears its out. he gets upset and calls me names says im cheatin and im not says i dont want to be with him he has like a oral sex rage of anger when he dosent get it he turns into a whole other person not the man i fell in love with..

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A male reader, mister.m Netherlands +, writes (7 July 2009):

mister.m agony auntabout "YOU SET THE RULES AND US MEN WILL PLAY BY THEM". I fully disagree! A man playing by a woman's rule is considered weak. This may sound cruel but it's the hard truth.

What I suggest is that you discuss this issue with your partner. Tell him you don't like giving oral sex. If he loves you, he won't freak out and says its allright!

The beatiful part: You'll love him for understanding that you dislike oral sex. Before you know it, you'll be pleased to give him oral sex once in a while for how well he understands you.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009):

Baby,you're holden the cards!If you don't want to do it,don't.I mean there's give and take in every relationship, and people in every healthy relationship should,but when its two one sided, then you need to say NO. tell him not every night.Tell him it's your pussy or your hand, and if that don't suit him, he can use his own.YOU HOLD THE CARDS!YOU SET THE RULES AND US MEN WILL PLAY BY THEM.It may take us a while to come around, but we will.

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