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writes:A general question here....do girls prefer guys who are cute or hot? Because throughout my life i have always been told by girls how cute i am and my brother who is a couple of years older always gets told how hot he is, and he has had heaps of girlfriends and i have only ever had one, so is it a prefernce thing or do cute or hot people attract different kinds of girls? Reply to this Question
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reader, kennyj  +, writes (12 April 2011):
 If you are generally attractive, you can attract very cute to stunning model types. The key is the right attitude. Girls are more attracted to personality traits more than hot looks.
Confidence and poise along with a cocky-funny sense of humor will really help you break the ice. Don't turn wussy once you get her attention.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (9 July 2009):
 Remember what Shakespeare said, "Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind..."
I think that is very true, when you fall in love with someone, it transcends all reason.
However, being attractive does help. I'm old for you, but I remember that there were several guys from there who studied at my university and everyone I've met from New Zealand has been REALLY good looking. It must be something in the water. :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): Generally it seems hot guys attract more girls, but cute guys get more worthwhile ones. But that's not always true, just my observation of friends and acquaintances. Personally I go for cute guys over hot ones always, and my friend always goes for hot over cute. She has had more relationships than I as well, but hers have always ended badly or just not been that exciting to start with. Mine have been fantastic and deep.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): I'll try to call this one as I've seen it. Bear in mind that I'm an intrigued but technically disintereted observer, who's constantly called 'cute' by girls but never 'hot' - no problem, it isn't really girls I'm after. But I've observed the straight world and find it fascinating. Some men attract more girls than others. And some girls attract more men than others. The imbalance is massive. If you gathered together a random 100 guys, and showed them photos of two girls at differing ends of the visually-attractive spectrum, and asked them which one they'd honestly prefer to have sex with, chances are every single one of them would opt for the 'hotter' one. I've seen this sort of deal in school, though on a smaller scale. If you did the exact same but reversed the genders at every turn, I don't doubt the outcome would be the same. Go into any pub or club anytime, when you're old enough. You'll see. Some girls are pursued relentlessly by a constant stream of guys. Same applies to some guys. But thankfully, the vast majority of people have to rely on factors like personality, sense of humour, confidence, body language, intelligence, sweetness, wit etc. to attract partners. You're 16-17, with lots of women telling you how cute you are. It means they like you. Very very few of the women I know (most are in the 20-25 age range) would contemplate having sex with a guy your age unless he was well ahead of his years in terms of maturity, physique etc. Give it a couple of years, and they'll probably find you've graduated from 'cute' to 'hot'. Don't worry about your brother, you're not in a competition with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): Cute guys are more likely to attract girls interested in something more serious/long term than hot guys are. Regardless of how hot the girl is, it just depends what she's looking for. Also I bet in a couple of years when your his age now, you'll be a little more mature looking and so the perfect combination of hot/cute. Cute is a great quality to have for attracting genuine, nice girls.
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