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36-40,
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writes: Right about 4 months ago I got a temp job at home, having just returned from abroad. Not thinking that I was settling down at all or making any friends I decided to leave again in the summer. Because I didn't want to let my boss down, I said that an opportunity had come up for me abroad and that I was going to leave. I was leaving but only to go and work in a normal job out there nothing special. I really didn't want to lie but I thought they would never know since it was only little and would also improve my chances of a good reference/getting my job back when I returned. Then, typically I started to become friends with a boy there, and, especially in the 2 weeks before I left, all signs were hinting to something more happening. Now it's really bugging me that I can't tell him what I'm really up to over here. What should I do? What's more is it's not going so well out here. I'm lonely, depressed and missing my family and friends so much. The only thing stopping me from getting on a plane back home is the money that will have been wasted to pay for my trip. I really don't think I can last out here on my own until next year but I don't know what to do. Any suggestions?
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reader, Starlights +, writes (13 July 2009):
if u dont feel happy, return to your home!!! money is nothing compared to happiness, and u might have missed out on this guy, and ur missing your friends and family.u can always return again if u wish too, but maybe now isnt the right time for u to be there.listen to your feelings.good luck!
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