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I left and now I'm beginning to think I made the wrong decision

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Question - (7 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Right about 4 months ago I got a temp job at home, having just returned from abroad. Not thinking that I was settling down at all or making any friends I decided to leave again in the summer. Because I didn't want to let my boss down, I said that an opportunity had come up for me abroad and that I was going to leave. I was leaving but only to go and work in a normal job out there nothing special. I really didn't want to lie but I thought they would never know since it was only little and would also improve my chances of a good reference/getting my job back when I returned. Then, typically I started to become friends with a boy there, and, especially in the 2 weeks before I left, all signs were hinting to something more happening. Now it's really bugging me that I can't tell him what I'm really up to over here. What should I do? What's more is it's not going so well out here. I'm lonely, depressed and missing my family and friends so much. The only thing stopping me from getting on a plane back home is the money that will have been wasted to pay for my trip. I really don't think I can last out here on my own until next year but I don't know what to do. Any suggestions?

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2009):

Starlights agony auntif u dont feel happy, return to your home!!!

money is nothing compared to happiness, and u might have missed out on this guy, and ur missing your friends and family.

u can always return again if u wish too, but maybe now isnt the right time for u to be there.

listen to your feelings.

good luck!

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