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writes:oh my where do i even begin. firstly, sorry that this is long but i need your help as i have no friends. i am begging you to read this, please. i feel so awful. long story short i met this girl online back in january and we talked and all. she treated me with tons of affection such as calling me hun, flirting, putting x's in messages, telling me she missed me when i wouldn't sign on for a while, etc. i loved the affection that i was getting from this girl. eventually after all of this, i could not get her out of my head at all. i mean 24/7 i would have this girl in my thoughts... literally. also keep in mind that i was so nice and caring with this girl. very nice and caring. she confided in me telling me about her problems and stuff. here's the problem: all of a sudden, out of the blue she started acting weird in not replying to my messages. then one day she sent me a message telling me that i'm a creep and then that same day she deleted me off of her friends list. i was EXTREMELY distraught. suddenly i couldn't eat nor sleep. then i told her how i felt and eventually she added me back and i was happy again. i started eating and sleeping well, but a week and half later (early this month), she deleted me again!!!!! i've loss my hunger and i'm having trouble sleeping. what's really really bothering me is that she is not giving me a reason at all as to why she did this to me. she called me a creep when i never said anything creepy or inappropriate to her. she said she hates me when i was nothing but caring the whole time. i really can't fathom why she said that!! i can't get her out of my head and i'm so obsessed, especially because of the things she said with no explanation. i feel so damn betrayed because like i said, i was so nice and caring to her and she confided in me and for her to say those things, really really hurts me. she hasn't been replying to my messages asking why the sudden change in emotion. i have a feeling of emptiness inside of me. i'm very miserable and what sucks is that i have no friends to talk to and i'm in my room most of the time doing nothing. i can't take it anymore i miss the good times i had with this girl, i miss the huge amount of affection she once expressed. where did it all go?! once again sorry that this is long, really sorry but if you read it in it's entirety, i appreciate that. i need some advice to get over this girl and to get her out of my head. i feel betrayed and i feel like shit. what do you think happened? i can't get her out of my head. i need an explanation. HELP ME!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): I understand how you feel but i think this girl is just playing with your feelings. Based on your story, there is no reason for her to act like that. She's crazy. You don't deserve someone like her and better let her go and move on. I tell you, no girl who is into you will treat you like this. Clearly, she doesn't care about how you feel.
Please move on for your own sake. Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): You need to read what you have just written, u said your obsessed with this girl, thats not a normal emotion or feeling. Many girls call guys and girls hun and put kisses at the end of their sentences, i even do that to my best mate. You keep repeating yourself, you were caring and nice but obviously to her she saw something else. You cannot force someone to like you as much as you like them. It sounds like you havent even met her and if she doesnt wanna talk to you anymore, leave her be.Instead of sitting in room constantly then do something about it, get out do something that makes you happy because this isnt normal behaviour. I went out with my ex for a year and he was obsessed with me said exactly the same thing that he cant eat or sleep but have you actually thought about how she is feeling. Telling a girl you cant eat or sleep and that your obsessed is creepy. If someone didnt like me i wouldnt try and force them to like me or email them saying i cant eat or sleep, id respect their wishes and leave them alone and you should do the same.
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