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writes: I seperated a few years ago and never thought i'd meet someone until last year when i meet a guy on a girlie weekend, we kept in touch and met up late last year but since then we haven't seen one another. Everytime i go to delete his number from my phone he gets in touch which even at my age is confusing me, what does he want??? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): Relationships at any age are confusing!
If you want to know what he wants from you, ask him!
Or, as Satin said...block him, then delete him from your phone. I understand how difficult that is...
It's like ripping off a bandaid quickly, rather than slow and painfully!
Good Luck!
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (7 July 2009):
Maybe he just sees you as a casual friend. I have a friend like this who I barely see 3 times a year but we are happy to keep touch occasionally. If you want more from this man then ask him straight out. If the answer is that he just wants to be friends then you have your answer.
Aunty Em x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): Maybe he just wants to be friends... and just calls to "check in" every now and then with you. I mean has he ever given you any idea that he might want more? Y
ou could just ask him out right as well what he DOES he want? Nothing wrong with doing that - atleast you will have peace of mind if nothing else? All he can say is "yes I want more" or "no I only want to be friends"
The only other option is to change your number and then delete this guys number from your contacts and your life...
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reader, xjadeycakesx +, writes (7 July 2009):
When he gets in touch with you what does he want? Booty call? just a chat? x
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