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age
26-29,
*uvinme159
writes:I'm 13 and there's this guy that likes me. Lets call him J. So j and me were IMing and he said he to have sex with me and i said i wanted to too. But then i thought about it and i really wasnt ready because i was molested and i dont think im ready. Then on saturday i had my friend text him and he said he would take things slow like just fingereing me or eating me out and i was happy J would take things slow. AND I DONT KNOW IF IM READY!!!!! and what does eating out mean and does it hurt???
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reader, ROXY01  +, writes (7 July 2009):
 Sweetie, Personaly i dont think your ready. You will know when your ready.
And maybe its just me, but i also think your still too young to be having sex you only 13 and have so much to experiance as a teen. Sex is something you should wait with till your more emotionaly mature.
Keep in mind how long you'v known him for, You dont want ppl thinking you easie.
I dont want to sound old fasioned but losing you verginity should be with someone special. I lost mine at a young-ish age and i wish i had waited.
If he is a decent guy he will understand when you tell him your not ready;)
Good luck
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reader, PinkyFloya +, writes (7 July 2009):
You're thirteen. If you have sex with this guy it'll be for nothing. Someday you'll fall in love with some guy and you'll regret losing your virginity to this guy, if you have sex with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): You aren't ready. When you are ready, you won't be frightened.
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reader, X-Chlo-X +, writes (7 July 2009):
 I think texting or over msn or whatever is easier than telling some one face to face , its easy to press buttons not explaining your true feelings , ive said things i didnt mean.(eating out means he will lick your 'privates' if you like :S which i wouldnt go that far )But its up to your just tell him you dont think your ready and tell him he can get lost if he doesnt want to wait (Y) good luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): 'eating out'i havent heard that term used in the uk, but im assuming that it means 'licking out'which is basically when the guy licks the girls vaginal opening.no, it does not hurt.
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