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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I went through some of my boyfriend's forum posts for some gaming tips and found something I didn't like. I found flirtacious comments to 2 virtual females a few months after we started our relationship in 2008. Now, this was almost a year ago and I am wondering if I should just let it go? Or do I have a right to be angry and demanding answers because he wasn't honest with me and telling me about his past, which actually included me?His posts are public as well as his profile, and he knows I could look at it any time...so I don't get why he would flirt so publically? Would you be mad? I have trouble talking to him about this because every little thing like this I find makes me a bit more unsure of the relationship and I dont want him thinking I'm just a paranoid girlfriend. I care about how he thinks of me. Since those 2 incidents, I havent really noticed him being flirty with anyone but me, but I still cant help but think that maybe if he was flirty with them, they had something going on as well.I just dont know how to be confident in his love for me when I find crap like this. I will have a headache for days and feel sick and won't eat or speak.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): Let it go!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): I supposed I am over reacting...I just wanted to make sure it was just words that's all, not an affair or fling.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 July 2009):
 Wow don't you think you're over-reacting just a tad?! My advice is not bring it up to your boyfriend and to try to get past it. It was a year ago and he hasn't been flirting since so you should be able to let it go. You also might want to look into ways to improve your self-esteem. There are hundreds of books and websites that deal with the subject.
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