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writes:First off, my boyfriend and I work together. We don't have a lot of days off together, so we see eachother at work most of the time. Coworkers aren't allowed to date, so we act like everythings normal when people are around, so naturally there's some tension between us.We close together when we work, and we'll usually get off and stand around outside by our cars holding eachother and kissing and whatnot, the things we can't do inside the store. Lately, whenever I'm hugging him close, or after a quick makeout session, I can't help but notice his erection pushing against me. The the past two or three nights he's done it.It's totally awkawrd because I don't know if he expects me to say something, because he just goes on with whatever we're doing. Even if he did expect a reaciton out of me, I have no idea what I'd say. It doesn't bother me when he does it, it turns me on actually, but we're both still a little shy around eachother, so I have no idea how to go about it. I feel dumb not saying anything, but I don't know how to go about it, like if I should joke around with him or not. If I go about it the wrong way I don't want him to think I'm making fun of him, or saying I don't like it or something. So I guess my question is how do I go about letting him know I am infact noticing his erection pushing against me? Or how do I let him know I'm not bothered by it?Like I said, we're both fairly shy, so just flat out saying "hey you're pushing it against me" would be completely awkward for both of us, so I'm looking for ideas for something a little more creative.
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reader, Rogerramjet  +, writes (7 July 2009):
...well, i don't know how far or crazy you want to take it, but you'd probably blow his mind if you touched it...Otherwise, i might just kind of rub yourself against it as you embrace (if you're comfortable with that.)There are ways to communicate that you notice and like it without having to actually say any words...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): Here's a few more gems from her:
http://digitaldreamdoor.nutsie.com/pages/quotes/maewest.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): I think it was Mae West that remarked "Is that a gun in your pocket or are you just pleased to see me?"
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reader, quarky  +, writes (7 July 2009):
 Yeah, make it light-hearted-tell him you don't mind, that you like it. I wouldn't' try and joke about tho it in case he takes it the wrong way!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 July 2009):
He's probably rather embarrassed by it so there is really no need to say anything at all.
But if you really want to say something then just tell him "I love knowing how much I turn you on."
Or put your hand on it while you are hugging him.
Good Luck!! xx
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