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anonymous
writes:hi dears,please give me more solutions,i'm going to marry someone who is a very faithfull, loyal, generous and as a whole a good boy. but as a matter of fact he is not such handsom and attractive in my sight. i logicaly accepet him as my husband but sensory it's hard for me to deal with him.what should i do??! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): First, i wanna know...based on your country flag here, is this an arranged marriage you are going to have? Anyway, if it is not..then you can still call the engagement off and tell him you realized you are not ready. Don't marry someone you don't like.But if it is an arranged one, like your families are involved..i think you just go ahead with it. I have a lot of friends who had a mariage of this kind and whose husbands they didn't like at first but in the long run they are happy wives. And believe me, they fell in love with their husbands. Just to add, according to research, between love marriages and arranged marriages, there is greater failure rate in love marriages. So it means the success of marriage doesn't entirely depend on attraction and strong feelings..there are other factors to it like commitment and love develops too.Goodluck to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): well if u find him not attractif break it off u don't to send the rest of your life with somone that u don't find hansome y would u even say yes to someone that u don't think is handsom???????????
i hope things work out
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (7 July 2009):
 dont marry him
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