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Can his ED trigger him to have such addictive desire to threesomes?

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Question - (7 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2009)
A female Canada age , anonymous writes:

I am dating this guy who keeps telling me I am the sexiest woman he's ever met. We have had fantastic, hot sex. Lately all he's been doing is asking me to consider a threesome. I would understand this desire if we were younger (he is over 50). To make matters more complicated he has Erectile Dysfunction. My question is, can his ED trigger him to have such addictive desire to threesomes? (he is always bringing it up) I mean always, just was wondering if the two correlate? ED and Threesomes?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009):

Erectile dysfunction and threesomes?

I'm no expert (at least on the former) but no, I wouldn't imagine they correlate. Perhaps the idea of dissatisfying two women at the same time appeals to him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009):

Thank you for answereing. I do not have a problem with his ED at all, we actually use toys and it's alot of fun despite his ED. He has had threesomes in the past, which I think he's become addicted to. I just thought I was special and I could of been enough!

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (7 July 2009):

I think it's more likely that because he finds you sexy, he thinks you are the kind of girl that will do the more kinky activities.

I see what you mean about maybe trying to overcompensate for his ED, but I think it's more likely that he has a hot new sex partner and wants to push his luck to get as much as he can out of you.

If you are not happy with him then tell him to cut it out or lose you. Don't ever compromise on what you will and will not do.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, rugmonkey United States +, writes (7 July 2009):

I can't see why the two would correlate. Perhaps he feels insecure and wants to see you pleasured by someone else?

Or, maybe it was a fantasy he never lived out as a youth.

Or perhaps he lived the fantasy, loved it, and wants to make the fantasy a regular part of his reality.

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