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writes:Okay, so me and my friend met this guy at a party. He's really funny, and has a great personality, but is not much of a looker. After the party, he asked me out and I panicked and said no. Then my friend told me that he had asked her to pursuade me to go out with him. Then she said if I wouldn't then she would. I was considering it, but she was quick and now they're going out, and I'm starting to feel jealous. She thinks he still likes me, and while she was away he asked me if I would go out with him if he dumped her. I stopped texting him after that, as I didn't want to hurt my friend even though it hurt me to stop. Now she's acting like she doesn't care, and I've started to go a bit nuts, (dreaming about him, sending him texts in my head, talking to him when he's not there etc...) We're going to see him soon, and I'm not sure what do do - should I flirt with him, ignore him, or what?
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (8 July 2009):
 Treat him like he is your friend's boyfriend, because that's what he is. With that said, I agree with thatgothgirl20, he is an ass. No decent guy would date someone's friend as a backup, that's guaranteed to cause problems in the friendship and in the relationship.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (8 July 2009):
 I think you did the right thing. This guy is an ass and he's going to get what he deserves soon. Instead of dating your friend to get closer to you, he should've been true to himself and told her, "No."
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