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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for about 10 years now and I am having second thoughts about our relationship. We have been talking about marriage and I think he is ready to pop the question but I'm definitely not. I'm not sure if he is the one for me...part of me feels like I should go through with it because I have somuch time invested but another part of me is angry and confused. There are things he's done in the past that I have forgiven but not forgotten and they keep resurfacing in my mind...we have booked a trip a year from now that i have already paid my half for and now I feel like im trapped. I think he's going to ask me to marry him within this year and I cant leave him because of this trip we have already paid for...what should I do?? so confused please help.
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reader, Jess1ca_1988  +, writes (7 July 2009):
girl, if you r still having doubts after that long its not worth it bc if those things start resurfacing after you get married it will more than likely end in divorce. And if he is not making u feel like the queen of his world than he is not doin his job as a long term boyfriend and he probably wont after yall get married and as far as the trip u can still be friends with him and if things get too akwark just tell him u want to go but not to hang out with him the whole time
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