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He is very good at running away and hiding!

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Question - (26 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 February 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Everytime he gets angry over anything he runs and hides for days, even weeks.

he is very good at running away and he admits it. What to do with this behavior

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A male reader, nichiren United States +, writes (26 February 2009):

nichiren agony auntHe might need time to get over things.

Some people prefer to work through their anger on their own before they communicate with others again.

And sometimes it takes days and weeks depending on the person.

If you are uncomfortable with that all you can do is end it.

But if you can deal with it and thats the only issue, then do not worry about it.

Thing is people are expected to act in certain ways to fit what society thinks is adequate. But humanity does not fit into a box.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (26 February 2009):

If you've tried talking and it doesn't work then it might be time to kick him up the bum.

Are you content for him to do this for every argument for the rest of your life?

If not then tell him that if he does it again then it's over. Then if he does do it gain, change the locks and your phone number and leave his stuff out in bin bags.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, cupids_friend United States +, writes (26 February 2009):

If he is shy to talk about his feelings try to do it over the phone most people feel safer that way I hope this helps please let me know

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