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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been emailing this man from a personal ad he had advertised online that I responded to. We've been corresponding since the beginning of February. Made out a couple of times, today I had sex with him. He's not interested in a relationship. Did I make a mistake by being easy and not waiting for him and I to get to know each other better? I've been single for about six months, since my previous boyfriend and I were together for four years. He and I have had rebound sex a couple of times in the past two months. I believe that I have absolutely no success with men. I've had sex with ten guys in the last five or six years, all of them but one, have just been one night stands. I don't understand why I'm not good enough as a girlfriend- I'm beautiful, intelligent, great conversationalist and listener, witty, friendly, a great cook, loving, compassionate, romantic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): Thanks for the advice. I know I should have waited, yet I've been sexually frustrated and stressed, more so, with the economy being the way it is. Basically, I needed some sexual healing, and I know I'm not going to get it from my previous boyfriend of four years, he's moved on, apparently. I don't go to bars, I don't drink, smoke or do drugs, so that's not my scene. I live in a area where there are literally two men for every woman, the ratio between the genders is unbalanced. There's not many men that I'm attracted to or compatible with.
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reader, cupids_friend +, writes (26 February 2009):
You know it sounds like to me that you just want a good relationship and believe me you sound like a great girl and I am 21 I am 165 benching in around 245 6 foot tall a well built guy and I make 6000 a month and i have had sex 4 times and I can't find a girl for me and I want you to know sometimes I just want a girl to have sex. But I allways find it best to get to know the person first and I am not saying your easy but get to know them first if their is anything at all I can help you with please let me know.
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reader, tux +, writes (26 February 2009):
 Maybe it's just the types of guys you interested at meeting are just not much into commitment. If you want to find a different man that wants a more serious relationship, you need to think more outside of the box of which you have been thinking. Maybe looking at different avenues to meet guys. I would definitely stay away from bars. You need to find a place that you can enjoy that can possibly bring upon a nice steady relationship. Maybe look for men that you would otherwise pass up. The world is full of single men that would love to meet something they can be serious with. But I would say not to get discouraged, because in the end you will not be in a serious relationship until you find that final last one and sometimes to get there you need to go through some failures.
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