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My ex boyfriend is driving me nuts with so much confusion!

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Question - (26 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *heskieswerefilled writes:

My ex boyfriend and I broke up 3 1/2 months ago about. We have been friends throughout the breakup because he wanted to be. We do have sex but that has stoped, unless a rare occasion that I ask him- because he doesn't ever bring it up so I know that isn't what he wants from me. Anyways, I'm wondering if he still likes and cares for me and if he wants to get back together or what hes doing. We talk daily, he calls or texts me all of the time- I never text or call him first. It is always him making the effort. He is really concerned with the fact that I'm going tanning, and getting dressed up all of the time now.

He is also concerned if I'm seeing someone eles, or if I'm talking to guys on the phone. He is still really flirty with me, always smiles and makes fun of me like he did when we first started dating. Signs that I find are werid is that he always listens to what i say, I told him to do his hair in a mohawk and the next day i see him he has a mohwak. He stoped talking to his best friend because me and his best friend hung out durning our break up, he isists on never talking to his best friend again yet he talks to me. When we do hang out we getting in little bickery arguments and he gets really upset in the end (like sad).

I don't know what to do, does he still like me? I mean he doesn't talk to his friends about his feelings so I can't go and ask him. I think he might be scared to get into a relationship- that it would look bad on him if we got back together.

What should I do? Do you think he still has some feelings for me? Lately, I've been noticing he's been coming around ALOT ALOT, he gets upset when i don't want to talk to him this that and everything eles.

I need advice.

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A female reader, 19agegap United States +, writes (27 February 2009):

i am in the same situation as you....he probably misses you cuz you guys are no longer together. but remember...he was the one who let you go in the first place. that already says a lot..........:(

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