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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My fiance came to the UK a year ago and has been unhappy in his job for a longtime with the commute and the stress etc and I have been there to support him and try and cheer him up. Recently he has started a new project in his spare time which he is really motivated by but it is making me unhappy. He spends every eve and weekend when he is home from work on it and I miss just cuddling in front of the TV together (like we used to pretty much every night). Am I being selfish to want more of his time? He said I should be happy as he is at home with me doing this not out but I miss talking to him and the physical closeness we had before. I want him to be happy but am I wrong to ask for a little bit more attention than him simply sitting next to me?
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reader, cupids_friend  +, writes (26 February 2009):
No your not wrong to get more attention I am a guy I am 20 so the guy probably loves you very much but is just worried about the job just be honest. Honesty is the best thing in a relationship just tell him that you miss him in the bedroom and cuddleing and if you don't want to say anything to him well go to the movie store and get his favorite movie and sit down and watch it. I wish I could help more if this does not help tell me why and I will try and help you
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