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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Ok, so my boyfriend is all bothered because he text me yesterday wanting to meet up for sex during work hours. I lied and said that I was stuck in a meeting and left my phone in the car. I don't want him to get used to calling me out for a nooner!!I could easily get fired for this! I called him back about an hour later and he sounded bothered and said he'd call me back. We talked a few minutes later, I said 'I'm sorry' and he wasn't completely over it. He was like, 'you should of let me know that you couldn't make it.' And he went on and on about how I just didn't understand the reason why he was upset. Well I guess I don't..or maybe he's just being unreasonable? This morning still a bit bothered..I'm like get over it, right? Or does he have a good reason to be upset?Oh and during our conversation he mentioned 'look at the things I'm doing for you.' I think he's being a total guy..being a bit manipulative. Trying to get his way! Am I right or wrong?
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (26 February 2009):
Well he should accept that you have to work and that you can't just come when he asks. You have apologised and that's all you can do. Leave him to simmer down, I'm sure he'll be fine soon and realise he's being stupid. X
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