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*x-Bubba
writes:What do I do? My girlfriend dumped me less than a week ago. It was a complete shock, she said she loved me and gave no sign of leaving right until the moment she admitted to cheating on me during the last 3-days. It is very painful, I thought I met my soul mate and never considered cheating on her. I of course am hoping she will come back to me, but she is closing doors of contact and is dating the other guy. I just found out that she applied for a job where I work and was hired for my shift. I am happy at the job and it is my career path. What in the world do I do during work??? and still want her back!
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reader, cupids_friend +, writes (26 February 2009):
Lol I am sorry man this exact thing happend to me the best thing that I can tell you is that talk to the boss and tell him that you want a shift change and if she does not want back together then it will be hard to get over her couse you c her every day so try not to c her and just let her know that your the better person let her know what she is missing and she may come back
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (26 February 2009):
 I also agree with the below poster. At work you will have to remain professional and keep you prsonal life separate otherwise it will get very messy. I suggest kicking some arse and succeeding because cuccess is the best revenge. It will also make her think twice about dumping her.
Just be distant from her at work do not way ever you do create complication or get personal it will be a real mess otherwise.
Good luck mate!
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reader, rateyourlove0727  +, writes (26 February 2009):
WELL Ex-Bubba, my advice is BE IN CONTROL!!. You said she got a job @ your shift, and you are happy with you job and it is your career path? Then what a good way to start if you climb the top of the food chain!!! Work your way up in your career! She will realize that you are the man-to-be and she should not have cheated on you. Of course, by the time you are on top, i don't know if you would still want her back... the point is, you still have something to hold on to, your work... in the middle of it all, you might find someone who is better than her. Or maybe you might even win her back. In any case, you should have an "ace" card, that is a good career life...
Let me know how it turns out...
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