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writes:Is being 32 old to some who are 30 years old? I am turning 30 next year, I feel old in comparison to someone who is 28 years old.I am scared of turing 30 because I never had a boyfriend and never had my first off a guy a really like. I am depressed turniing 30 and feel I've lost out. It's age I am not ready for so what do I do?Any good advice and sensible. I need help on how to cope.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): What answers are you looking for then?? Just be positive about yourself, be positive about your life, being a negative worryer aint gonna get you nowhere now is it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): What is your question? What are the answers you'd hope to get? Honey, the only alternative to getting older is a dirt nap....get over it and find something productive to do and think about! And by the way Happy Birthday!
The guy thing will take care of itself if you stop being such a downer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): not the answers i am looking.not answering the question that is asked
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (27 February 2009):
 You know, we may not realize it, but we are equipped with "receptors" and "emitters" of energy.
If you "broadcast" a positive energy, that is what people will receive. So start being positive!
If that means going to your doctor to see if you need to do something with your being depressed, do it. If you are interested more in taking a holistic approach, perhaps you can start a healthy natural diet coupled with healthy exercises (be it yoga, martial arts, salsa dancing, hiking, swimming, etc etc etc),so do it now. If it means getting a makeover in the way you look that makes people turn their heads (in a good way), do it.
Take good care of your well being, inside and out, and you will soon be a glowing woman in your prime time! You will be so atractive that men - of any age - would want to be your partner for life!
Good luck!
Cat
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): Oh get over yourself first and foremost, you are taking yourself way to seriuosly. Age is just a number, you can date a guy 10 years younger than you if you want to do so. Widen your choices of available men, but not making age an issue, and then most others won't either.
Start having some fun, get a life that you love and enjoy, do the things that interest you and go where men are, not the bars, but where neat, respectable men are....like the golf course or a library or a museum, art gallery, grocery store....wherever, 50% of the population are men, it is rainging men. Internet date or flirt with all men, even the bag boy at the grocery to get practice, you will start getting more attention and it will make you feel better, smile, look approachable. No one will come up to you if you look depressed, mad or sad...they will respectfully leave you alone.
And that isn't what you want, now is it?
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reader, XxAnGelXxx +, writes (27 February 2009):
 Your not old at all, your in your prime girl! After all, you're only as young as you feel :) you know the saying, good things come to those who wait? Well, maybe its just that your good thing is well on its way :)
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