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We met a couple of times, when is it OK to sleep with him?

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Question - (26 February 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi I've just started dating a guy quite a lot older than me. I like him a lot, and I also find him very attractive but we have only met up a couple of times, and been talking on the phone etc. I dont want to sleep with him too soon, but I think he expects me too but I dont want to give him the wrong idea. When is it ok, i.e. how long into the relationship to sleep with him would you say?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009):

It is 'okay' to sleep with him when you feel it is okay. If you're asking, I suggest you don't consider engaging in sex at all until you can think for yourself.

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A female reader, Confined United States +, writes (26 February 2009):

Well I'm the type of person who wants to save herself for marrage and you c if he wants to sleep with you after a couple weeks somethings wrong but nothing wrong with it if you love him then go ahead but it's best to give yourself to the one your sure to love forever..:)

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A male reader, cupids_friend United States +, writes (26 February 2009):

Ya I have to say that I think if he really likes you then he will except the fact you do not want to rush it so just talk to him about it pluse if all else fails there is more ways than one to please someone. I hope this helps please let me know if it does or not

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009):

When you both know each other fairly well and are both certain that the time is right. That could mean anything from a couple of weeks to six months to two or three years.

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