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writes:I am still to think that been beautiful, sexy is a curise not a blessing. I am 5'8, tone slender body. Every body in my school, both high school and college thinks I am beautiful. both male and female. I am into fashion. But I have never had a boyfriend. Most guy tell my friends how beautiful I am, and that they like me but none of them had ever asked me out. I dont why?I am started to worry because all my friends have boyfriends. I am the prettiest of them all. I am very nice, clam and very classy. Yes, I am very shy and inexperience when it comes to guys. I am a virgin but Later, I wanted to have SEX so bad. I think about it all the time. I have never mastrubate nor touch my own body. I get horny all the time. I need help. How can I have a boyfriend? Any ideas why i get horny these days so often. And how can't I touch my own body. Please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone. I do not understand, most people consider my shyness, laid- back as been concieted but am not.One guy in school told me once that he was intimade to talk to me, I just dont know why. I am very nice. I do not think I should be judge by my looks, or style. I just happened to be blessed with good looks and a sense of fashion. I never taught of having sex till this year, when i went to college. Now, all i think about is SEX. I get horny all the time, every seconds,it is crazy. My girlfriends tell me everything they and their boyfriend do. I think my problem is I am too picky when it comes to guys. I am attracted to the tall, handsomes one. I do not see myslef dating anyone shorter than me. I know i sound a lil concieted but I cant get go. I need help. How do i open up to people especially men. Why do guys feel intimated by me. I am very worried, because if men see me as an imtimation, I am going to be single forever. I do not know if I will even be a good girlfriend since I have never been one.Help me!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, flicka23  +, writes (26 February 2009):
 Hello,I don't say that this will happen to you of course but I can relate to your situation since I experience the same thing. I am 28 years old and I am still unmarried. Almost all my friends are married. I always thought why I cannot find a partner while all my friends have one. I'm beautiful, I watch the other married woman, they don't seem to have anything special, i'm not only beautiful but I'm a very compassionate and understanding person, I am able to give all the emotional love and sexual love a man needs but yet I'm still sinlge. As for you, your problem is that you want to do like your friends, you are so obsessed that you can't stop thinking about sex even if deep inside you feel you are not yet ready for having sex. You get horny these days because you think too much of sex. if you want to have a boyfriend, you should first stop to worry that much about your friends because unconciously you are projecting your insecurities, fears and worries and this does not make the boys feel comfortable around you. Start making friends with the boys you like and then let the relationship make it's own way. Hope this has helped.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (26 February 2009):
 You become horny because your body is preprogrammed to do so, and that is because you are of prime child-bearing age. It is nature's way, and the driving factors are hormones produced by your body, several of which are telling you that time has arrived. A class in biology or physiology might be instructive if taught by an open-minded teacher.
Although I am a much older man, I believe that I can understand how a very pretty young woman can actually be among the most lonely in regard to a suitor (boyfriend). I have heard about it all my life, and even female movie stars have publicly revealed similar troubles.
In my long-considered opinion, exceptionally attractive women may often need to be someone with initiative in order to meet and possibly mate with a good man. They tend to know that they can have the pick of the litter, so to speak, but some do not realize that it may be necessary to offer an opportunity to one or more potential candidates. Many, if not most, may be terrified at the very idea that you would probably just laugh at any guy who asks you out. You are probably very intimating with your beauty.
Just try sending one or two guys attractive to you, both physically but especially as a person, and shoot him a little smile, maybe a wink or both. If a confident man is what you prefer, a signal should ignite bravery in one of them. But do not discount the plain or average guy, maybe even shorter, who just really seems nice, sincere, and especially business-oriented. Comfort and security with an aspiring businessman may trump the handsome dud pouring concrete for a future. Consider intelligence; honesty; love, tolerance and respect of others; responsibility and well, just take a real good look at the person, and give him a wink if you like what you see. Best wishes girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): Well at this age it is completely normal to be horny....all the time lol. The reason that guys don't ask you out could be that they are intimidated by your beauty. Also you sound a bit conceited...theres nothing wrong with that, but guys don't really like to be around conceited girls. let your gaurds down a bit and you'll find that it will happen when you least expect it.
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