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writes:The same bf tht gtt mad @ me over a picture tht he didn't get just dumped me...I tried to ask him y he wz mad buh he would never tell me and then he was like just don't talk to I'm done with you but he didn't give me reason I've been nothing but good to him...I'm so confused..any advice ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (26 February 2009):
 It's plain that you are very upset and confused over the break up. When you care for someone it's hard sometimes to let go. This seems to be the biggest problem you have actually. However if you can get up the courage to just tell him WHATEVER and walk away, you will be well on the path to letting him see that you refuse to be walked on.
His childish behavoir in rufusing you any affection or relief from the stress you feel over this is simply awful to say the least. He isn't even man enough to recognize that a picture which apparently wasn't revieved is a lame excuse to break off a relationship. You are well off without him, trust me! Don't give into his game playing and manipulations. Anyone deserves better than to be treated with such disrespect.
Take control of your destiny by doing things that make you happy, excluding him completely from your life. If he can't grow up and face the real situations at hand, you don't need to be bothered with him at all. If you don't get this dude out of your hair he is going to keep it a tangled mess and your life is going to be constantly dishovled. You are going to become more and more anxious, depressed and confused. LET HIM GO...AND FIND SOMEONE WHO DESERVES TO BE WITH YOU...SOMEONE WHO IS DECENT ENOUGH NOT TO PUT YOU THRU THIS TYPE OF IGNORANT DOWNPLAY HE KEEPS THROWING AT YOU!
You are hearing this from an older woman who has spent great many years dealing with such men, who act like little boys. It will make you a nervous wreck and make you feel like you don't even know who you are anymore. It can strip you of your dignity and your good nature. It is possible to pull you down into a state of depression that you no longer believe in yourself as you self esteem takes a nose down straight down! Stand up for yourself and make it know that you WILL NO LONGER PUT UP WITH HIS ATTITUDE AND YOU HAVE NO INTENTION OF EVEN GIVING HIM AS MUCH AS A PHONE CALL, A TEXT OR ANYTHING ELSE TO ACKNOWLEDGE HIS CHILDISH WAYS!
My best to you,
God Bless,
Blue_Angel,
^(**)^
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (26 February 2009):
 I think you have posted other feeds about this guy haven't you? He is a looser, don't sweat it!
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