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writes:Would most men accept sex if it is offered to them?We hear that men are always thinking about or watching sex at some point or other but even some unattractive average woman offered herself to a man for the night would he take it?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): I had more than a few times that a woman offered herself, beautiful, less beautiful, often hot women who were single or not happy in their relation. Because I was commited I didn't accept or because she was the wife of my business-partner or because she was the mother of a friend of my son and in a relation or because I was not attracted to her.
But also when I was single I had sex several times with women who were not my type, but because we where both in need.
If my wife is giving what I need, I respect her and even if Eva Mendez is offering her body I might have a dinner with her but nothing more.
This is maybe one of the reasons that I have nothing to complain. (or is she making me so exhausted maybe that I have no extra energy :):).
Everybody is different, have different situations and opportunities.
I know more men who would accept an offer than who would not, but I also know men who would not accept...
Hope my answer gave you an idea.
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reader, nichiren  +, writes (26 February 2009):
 I would not generalize about most men.
But as to myself I would.
Back when I was in college I said yes to every woman that offered and asked plenty. I was about enjoying every moment then.
Then when I graduated and was supposed to be 'mature' according to the dictates of society I tried to get into a relationship.
I was not happy and relaized that the only end result was legally binding marriage which was not a practical choice for me.
And observations and experience taught me that the standards that society advocates are pretty much hypocrisy in a box.
I heard an older gentleman express a philosophy I agreed with at work last night "why are we denying ourselves pleasures to live longer. most of the time when you gett to your 70's and above unless you were in perfect health your whole life you have to tone your life down. and you lose your mind and body slowly. and we all have to dies someday so why not have a blast everyday and let death come as it may."
Made sense to me. Now i will always wear condoms and have responsible sex, but I do not care whether I am in a relationship or not.
However if I get into one i will be faithful as I was in the few i was in.
But at present as a single man, if she is hygenic, relatively decent looking in my eyes, not too overweight, and unmarried I would not turn her down at all.
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reader, urbanking99 +, writes (26 February 2009):
Personally - no I wouldn't take it. There is a thrill in the chase. Although I was chased when I was younger but I didn't spot the signs she wanted to sleep with me. But at the time she wanted me I wasn't interested (confidence issues).
I still maintain that I won't sleep with anyone unless I am attracted to them and them to me. The only proviso here though is "every human being has needs". Every so often these needs have to be catered for.
I have not slept with a woman for nearly twenty years and believe you me it gets no easier as time goes by. In fact the hunger of sexual intimacy is much more stronger now as I get older and realise what I have been missing out on.
If you "click" with someone and you want some fun, go for it!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): When I was younger I used to think sex was very special and wouldn't sleep with anyone unless I was in love with them. This didn't happen very often.As I got older, I realized that most of the girls I knew would give it up to pretty much anyone, so my whole idea of the act being "special" has pretty much gotten thrown out the window. So now if I could do it all over again. I would have taken it whenever and with whomever I had the chance. Sex is cheap these days. You might as well get as much as you can like everyone else.
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