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writes:hi,i have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years... and i just found that there has been another woman in his life for at least 4 months.... what should i do??? should i fight for my love for him or just go our separate ways?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): hi real quick before I log off here. You know the pain is what really hurts. I am so sorry if I seem harsh. If you are hurting take out paper put good and bad. If you want to dump him write down on paper gone forever, burn the paper, say a prayer if you like, put the paper in a box, say a prayer bury the box with photo's you will not know how great this feels until you to it. Get rid of him as though he is gone forever. Let him fight hard for you. Any one who cheats can be forgiven. Trust has to be rebuilt but he has to be the one fighting for you. I feel we all want that one person back, the good times we had, the good looks, the family functions, the holidays. I promise you will find him..,Best to you my friend...
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reader, missyj07 +, writes (26 February 2009):
missyj07 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you rateyourlove0727
i will do my best and i you will be hearing from me... i will let you know how things end up
thank you lots!!!
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reader, missyj07 +, writes (26 February 2009):
missyj07 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you peterPan
i will do my best and i you will be hearing from me... i will let you know how things end up
thank you lots!!!
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reader, rateyourlove0727  +, writes (26 February 2009):
YES FIGHT FOR YOUR LOVE FOR HIM!!! Focus on your guy, not the other woman, because your man should have the ball to stay away with temptation if he wants a serious relationship with you. Besides, if ever it doesn't go the way you expect it, no regrets on your part because you know you did what is right to salvage you relationship. So you should be proud and talk to your man that you love him so much and can see a good future with him, if he cannot follow, then i believe, even how much it would hurt, you need to set him free. Be with yourself and some good friends, travel and enjoy what other things you enjoy....LIFE is too beautiful, enjoy it missyj07!
Let me know how it goes, if your man realizes how important you are...
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reader, missyj07 +, writes (26 February 2009):
missyj07 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe have together but we have in a long distance relatio
nship.... for about 6months to a year.... ive seen in between but dont live in the same city anymore....
but he very important to me i love him so much and isnt it true that sometimes u have to fight for who or what u love? he says he still loves me and his relationship with his lady looks like a big lie.... i just saw him about a week ago... and our love is still there.... can a guy be in love with one person but be with someone else just because its convieant?
should i give him a second chance?
or is my relationship with him done with?
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (26 February 2009):
 I'm a little lost on the time factor here... and it's kind of important... has this other girlfriend been in the last 4 months that he was seeing you, or did you discover something that isn't currently going on right now? ...as in he isn't seeing this other woman now... assuming the first one's true, I'd ask how important he is to you. I have no evidence to corroborate this, but when a cheating guy has done it once, doing it a 2nd, 3rd or even 4th time is child's play. That said, you might be setting yourself up for further/future heartache if you don't cut loose of this situation and move on.
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