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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hello :)Me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship and get on really well. He used to live near me and go to the same school, but he moved and we didn't want to end it. He makes me laugh so much and I make him laugh too. He's really sweet and nice, and we could talk forever. But lately we haven't been talking as much, we used to let one topic flow into another but now I have to keep starting new ones. We only talk through MSN but we meet up every 2 months. Today he took "I love you" out of his MSN name. I asked him why and he said he didn't want to be tied down and it's pointless since we only meet every 2 months. But he also said he still loves me. I'm really worried as to what will happen since I really love him a lot. I just don't want things to end. Please try and help.I'd appreciate a guys answer so I have some idea of wear he's coming from.Thanks for your time.
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reader, Plutonious  +, writes (26 February 2009):
Ahhh! What can us girls do right?
I am going to be honest with you girl! Long distant relationship does not last. it's very unfortunate that he did move when you two got along so very well, it sounds like it. it does suck.
When a guy starts giving you signs like that taking away any missing you affection, or I love you affection, etc etc... that means he no longer needs you to do the same.
Ya you guys might still be called "Together" yet obviously he really does not want to be in a relationship.
you said it yourself that he does not want to be tied down.
So my advice...you just have to move on, find someone else. And at your age, you could find other guys at school to be in one. And what's the rush? you still have time to date other people. if he is your first love, it's going to really hurt, but what can you do? you have no power in moving near him nor can he?
You shouldn't dwell into it too much. so distract yourself do something active, do what you like to do, go out have fun with friends.
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reader, andrew loves hali +, writes (26 February 2009):
 well i think he loves you but he doesnt want it to seem like your guna be the one hes with forever, and im not saying that is the reason thats just my opioin
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