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Are all women the same?

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Question - (26 February 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 February 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am just curious, for those of you (women) out there who are experienced, is there a difference between sizes? If it's small you cant feel much, bigger feels fuller? And if she's loose or tight? Which do you (men) perfer? Are all women about the same or different? I hear men saying, Asian women are tighter. Anyone know if this is true?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009):

No, all woman are not the same, not at all.

Their shape and size is as different between 100 woman as it is between just two.

Loose or tight is not so much a function of how often a woman has birthed children or played around in the sack as it is of her physical condition.

A very fit woman (in that area) can tighten up or relax often at will, and in responce to the sort of attention she is receiving.

I for one love it when I giving oral to a woman when she allows herself to relax and open up, and for regular penitration to thighten things down on me.

I can only somewhat agree with the asians being smaller down there, it is true to a point but you may want to look at average birth weight for asian children vs. your particular races average birth weight. That should give you an idea of what sort of difference is truly out there. Its not like asian woman are giving birth to barby doll sized babies.

There are other differences as well, each woman feels a bit different inside due to her internal shape and level of wettness, temperature, and if she has had any surgery.

The external differences are super large, and one would be surprised if they were expecting to see the same from woman t woman.

My wife for example is very uncomplicated looking and keeps herself hairless (not my idea), I find her style very feminine and clean looking.

Other woman I have been with have had much more complicated looks down below, some large and thick others not so much.

The point is "no two woman are alike down there, and loose is not a function of lots of time in the hay, its just plain lazy, or in some cases injury that prevents her from being able to control that area"

Cheers

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A female reader, wonderingcat United Kingdom +, writes (26 February 2009):

wonderingcat agony auntkc_100 hit the spot already! (pun not intended)

I am a small Asian woman (4'11", 110lbs), not promiscuous, never had any children. My previous partners said that I was very tight, at least initially (to the point that sometimes it hurt). Then over time, I think it adjusts itself to accommodate my partner. The bigger his is, the longer it takes to adjust. The less frequent we did it, the longer it adjusts too (almost as if it went back to its original small size).

But, whatever size his is, to me, as long as he can find my G-spot, I'm on seventh heaven! LOL

Cat

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (26 February 2009):

k_c100 agony auntWell as a woman I hate to admit this but yes, there is a difference in sizes! If it is very small then it is difficult to feel it hence enjoyment is not so good. But then if it is really large it can hurt - somewhere in between is best! The width also plays a part (length isnt everything!) in how enjoyable it is for a woman. Again, too wide can hurt so somewhere in between the two extremes tends to be best.

But also important is if a guy knows how to use it! With regards to your "tightness" question, whilst I am not a man so cannot comment on the pleasure side, generally how tight a woman is down there comes from experience. If she has slept with lots of men and has sex regularly, and also has had kids, then she will be a lot looser than someone who has had relatively few sexual partners.

I think the whole thing with Asian women is a bit of a generalisation - Asia is a big place hence you cannot say all Asian women are the same down there! But generally the smaller the woman in height, the smaller she will be down below. Obviously Chineese/Japaneese (that side of Asia) women are smaller than most western women hence some may be tighter than western women. Virginity also plays a part clearly, and Asian culture does not agree with women having many sexual partners so again culture is determining how "tight" they are down there.

I hope this helps!

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A male reader, blahhh United States +, writes (26 February 2009):

well obviously tighter is better, but there's a such thing as too tight..for me anyway. the asian rumor is not true theyre the same as any other girl.actually the loosest girl ive had sex with was asian.

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