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writes:I cheated on my b/f back in september and now im 7 months preg. well my b/f found out about it and left me. it is killing me not bein with him or talkin to him all the time he said he might take me back if the baby is his but thats not good enough i want to be with him now i love him so much what can i do?? ooh yea me and my b/f are both white and my one night stand is not...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): As Ms. Mama had said, cause and effect. This is the consequence of your past action.
A person kills another and you will expect that person to be tried and sentenced accordingly. If that person asks, "I don't want to be jailed", how should anyone respond?
You cheated, you got pregnant and this is the consequence. No one can give you sane advice as to what you should do with your ex boyfriend. However, the best advice anyone can give you is to deal with your baby. Right now, it is NOT your desire to be with your ex that is important. What is important right now is to be as healthy as you can, do regular check-ups and find out what you need to do to prepare for the baby.
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (26 February 2009):
 Perfect example of cause and reaction. My closest friend did the same thing. I love her to death, but I had no idea what to say to her on a positive note. Love does not have the word "cheat" next to it in the dictionary. There is nothingyou can do about it right now, as far as the ex. He has every right to feel raw about what has happend. I mean, how would you feel if he cheated on you and got some girl knocked up? I bet you'd leave him, right? Wait untill your precious baby comes, get a DNA test (because even if the baby is born white, he still may not be your ex's), and take it from there. Right now, focus on taking care of you and that baby. Start collecting baby needs, diapers, hospital over night bags, ect. I am 9 months pregnant, and super glad I am ready for my baby boy to come. The last thing I want to deal with right now is scrambling around for baby items. Good luck.
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