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writes:So my boyfriend always ignores me whenever he sees me, he doesnt call me anymore and when i call him he makes up excuses and says "someone else is calling, ill call you back" and when i say "i love you" he'll say it back but it's more of an "i dont care what you think" and it makes me so upset. I really like this kid and i want to be with him but i get hurt all the time with him. Are these signs of him wanting to break up? Or is it just something else? Reply to this Question
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reader, nichiren +, writes (26 February 2009):
 He is trying to break up with you without having to actually do it.Lack of attention and communication is an easy way to get someone to break up with you.It basically lets the person get out of the situation without having to explain why.Some people call it cowardly but its just a hand-off play.I say just let him go.
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reader, 23ConfusedOne23 +, writes (26 February 2009):
 He either doesn't have the same feelings for you or thinks that you overwhelm him. Try to ease off of him and see his reaction. Don't call him for a little bit or if you do be very brief like nothing is bothering you. This might make him feel crazy and come crawling back to you. If he doesn't then he's feelings are not mutual unfortunatly. You are a woman and women are powerful. They can make a little boy out of a man if they use their inner woman ;)Good luck... let us know how it went.
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reader, carriebaby  +, writes (26 February 2009):
 Hey, i think the guy is trying to cool it off with you but doesnt have the nerve to actually do it. so hes just ignoring you completely in the hope that you will get the hint and move on.If hes treating you like that, then hes not worth it anyway.Forget him and go out and have fun with your friends.Im sure there is plenty of men out there that would treat you better!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): hey play hard to get. stop telling him you love him, give him space. I feel that you are in som much pain. Please come up with a plan so he is chasing you. Pick yourself up off the ground, change the way you dress, get hot and sexy.Egg him on but don't say I love you. That is a big word. Don't have sex with him for a long while, flirt with other guys, show this guy you mean business. If he wants you he will chase you. Don't chase him, get HOT!!!!If he loves you he will start spending more time with you.You are hurt now and I know you maybe seeing him a lot and that your hormones are going crazy but back off. Make yourself busy. Call you girlfriends up and start making other plans. Tell them your sorry for deserting them. Tell your mom and dad you love them. Reach out to other folks and learn mostly to compartmentalize your issue's by thinking about it and putting the matter in a file in your brain. Don't try to change the past. Remember what do we do when we fall, we pick our selves up.Good luck
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reader, cupids_friend +, writes (26 February 2009):
Hi I am a 20 year old male and unfortunately ya it sounds like the signals of a break up and you sound like a really nice girl and I wish guys treated girls better but I hope this helps if not please let me know
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