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Are these signs of being homosexual?

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Question - (26 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Is being attracted to attractive transexual or transgendered people a sign of homosexuality?

A friend of mine has transexual porn at his home.

And well a few of us checked it out and the 'ladies' were attractive except for the fact that some of them had a penis.

But they had hips, breasts, curves and every other feminine aspect.

Even though we know surgery and hormane treatments are responsibl for their feminine features.

So if a guy were to get aroused by that would he be gay?

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A male reader, dddddddd Australia +, writes (27 February 2009):

Well no, because the way you put it, you would be getting aroused by the feminine aspects of the person who to the eye looks like a woman. Getting aroused by what looks like a woman would make you quite the opposite of gay!

You really don't need to worry though. What you find attractive you find attractive - that's it. If it isn't perfectly normal it doesn't matter, that is just the way you are.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009):

"Gay" is just a label that other people in common society wish to categories sexuality. In reality, you cannot accurate categorize sexuality. You are attracted to and turned on by whatever you're attracted to and turned on by. That's it. It's really that simple.

If he likes guys that look like women, then he simply likes guys that look like women. Why bother putting a label to it? How does that benefit anyone?

Your friend is simply, your friend.

John Smith (random name) is simply John Smith who likes guys that look like women. He may also like women. He may also like women that look like guys. He may also like barnacles and grass and the sky and acorns.

John Smith is just willing to explore his sexuality. That's all there is to it.

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