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writes:Im having trouble in a relationship and Idk if he's cheating or if I should leave him,his 24 and I 18and he also has a child.we only see each other 3 times a month, he doesn't have a cell phone so I can't get into contact with him, I can only speak to him when he calls me and he always say he's going to come see me and he never do.I've told myself that I was young and shouldn't worry about it but I'm in love and I just got out of a relationship because of the same conflict. I wanna leave hi but I can't. He's also told me that if he cheated on me he would tell me but I don't believe him,does he love me,what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): one way to fine out is be upfront bout it and ask him, and if he love you then he will tell you the truth,
its better to find out then wasting your time thinking that he's cheating or not, if you can afford to buy a cell phone for him, if he cant, then that way you can get in touch when ever you want.
and sorry to say this if he really love you then he should make the afford to come and see you, if he can get his hand on a phone.
always a way if he want to.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (18 February 2009):
 Is he actually your boyfriend? Or is he just using you for sex. What is the mother of his child up to? This situation doesn't sound right to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): Actually - my guy doesn't have a mobile either - so it IS possible! - If they are down on their luck or unemployed they may not be able to afford a mobile phone!
What you could do is ask to ring him at his mum's or sister's house - my guy usually uses his friend or family phone for me to get in touch!
What I would be more worried with is why he doesn't come to see you. Maybe you could just ask him straight next time and get a straight answer!
Good luck - men are never straight forward!!
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (18 February 2009):
sorry to say this, but it sounds to me like he is just using you. you say he does not have a cell phone, but i find that hard to believe! i don't know anyone who does not have a cell. it sounds like he only wants to reach you when he wants. selfish if you ask me. do you really consider it a relationship if you hardly get to talk to him and see him?
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