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writes:My ex and I split up 5 weeks ago as a family member didn't agree, his family. We are both in our twenties but he still studies and I'm a single parent,A week after he ended our great relationship he made contact, stating we should remain buddies. He contacts me daily and chat online for hours.we had a day out together recently it was unstable at first but then it was very relaxed, we held hands, kissed it was like we were. he asked if he could spend the night which i agreed, thinking the couch he then asked if he could sleep in my bed, yes i agreed we didnt have sex, we just kissed and cuddled it was heavenly. We have spoken since and plan to meet soon, he is not mentioning friends like he did. I`m just wondering is this normal to still need this sort of conection on his part.Do even the sweetest guys still play mind games.I would like some advice from guys and gals
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): The sweetest guys can still play mind games, even unintentionally. How? People often would ask others for advice on relationships, some of that advice would make a person behave, act and react a certain way.
For example, let's say a really sweet guy who is inexperienced (doesn't matter really) asks some friends of his how to treat you and some of them say he shouldn't try so hard and have you express yourself, before he reacts to it. Say some of them suggests he should be more 'manly' and not express too much care and he follows this, you may feel that he's not quite the same person you first loved.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): it seems like hes a nice guy. but you never really know what people are actually up to.
trust him to the best of your ability, but try not to let him get close enough to hurt you.
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